Friday, July 05, 2013
hoorah!
I finished the first draft of my fourth novel this morning. Hoorah! Such an amazing feeling to bring my characters to completion. I can now leave them at their happily ever after (after a few edits!), and find another couple to bring together. I love my life. I kinda like this whole playing matchmaker game.....
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Boundaries and Nurturing
Today's Full Moon in Capricorn is a Super Moon. This means it is very close to the Earth.
What does it mean when the Moon is full in Capricorn?
Capricorn is about structure and boundaries, and defining territory. Its opposite sign, Cancer, is about nurturing, protection and mothering.
When we have a Full Moon it illuminates the shadow side of both zodiac signs.
So what message can you take from this particular Full Moon? In order to be an effective care-taker (mother or other nurturer) ensure you have firm boundaries in place so that you, and those being taken care of, do not feel violated or that you don't end up feeling like a martyr.
Take the best of both signs, and make them work for you.
Passionate, fun, dynamic, love-filled, joyous...
Have you found your passion in life?
Do you love waking up each morning ready to live life fully? You do? GREAT!
Would you like to understand your children better? Would you love for them to be guided to what is already in their hearts?
Psychological astrology shines a laser light onto our birth chart, revealing what the soul has come to Earth to learn. It shows our learning style, what drives us, where we feel fearful and inhibited, and so much more.
To book an astrology session for yourself or your child (in person at my home in Cumbria, or by phone to anywhere in the world), visit: http://www.themothermagazine.co.uk/astrology.shtml
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
The Writer's View
‘Mum, why did you google Breast Cancer Hospitals this morning?’ my
daughter asked.
‘Snooping in my search history, were you?’ I laughed. ‘I’m a writer. Don’t judge me by anything that I google! It’s all
in the name of research.’
Monday, June 10, 2013
Dreaming you into life
Oh how I love to wake up from a dream with a character or storyline. It feels like such a gift!
What I don't like is having to ask my characters to wait because I've got other things on my to-do list. But still, I let them chat, and I see their faces come fully into my mind. I sit at their table while they drink tea or coffee, and I drive in their car. I listen to their hearts ~ what saddens them or makes them happy. It can feel invasive, but it's also an honour. What a joy to be the one who dreams them into life.
What I don't like is having to ask my characters to wait because I've got other things on my to-do list. But still, I let them chat, and I see their faces come fully into my mind. I sit at their table while they drink tea or coffee, and I drive in their car. I listen to their hearts ~ what saddens them or makes them happy. It can feel invasive, but it's also an honour. What a joy to be the one who dreams them into life.
Sunday, June 02, 2013
The Book Hangover
...that moment when you've finished a book and you're still immersed in the lives of your characters; they're still talking to each other, and you're still eavesdropping.
However, there are new characters, new storylines, new locations all demanding brain time...they're all saying 'it's our turn now. Write about us now'. They clearly don't know that the day only has 24 hours, and a girl has to eat, read, sip coffee in the sunshine, exercise, cuddle her kids, do her 'day' job, hang out the washing, mop the floor, and so on.
yes, my friends, that is the book hangover...
However, there are new characters, new storylines, new locations all demanding brain time...they're all saying 'it's our turn now. Write about us now'. They clearly don't know that the day only has 24 hours, and a girl has to eat, read, sip coffee in the sunshine, exercise, cuddle her kids, do her 'day' job, hang out the washing, mop the floor, and so on.
yes, my friends, that is the book hangover...
Saturday, June 01, 2013
Sunrise
When you're a mother of toddlers, these early morning sunrises usually bring a moan of 'go back to sleep'. When you're sleep deprived, first light just aft 4am is anything but thrilling...Where are the black out curtains? Where is my SLEEP?
But as a mother of teenagers who have perfected the art of sleeping in, I adore these early sunrises. It's a gift that says 'Veronika, here is a whole bunch of extra time in your day for you to write'.
And it's true. It's just me (after feeding the hungry cats), the sunrise, the calves in the field outside my garden, and the birds singing in the day. I hold onto every single minute, and the minutes turn to an hour, and some days, there are quite a few hours in which I write. All guilt free. And then, when the family has awoken to the day, and it's clear I'm not going to be able to write a thing, I magically turn into a mother and wife again.
But as a mother of teenagers who have perfected the art of sleeping in, I adore these early sunrises. It's a gift that says 'Veronika, here is a whole bunch of extra time in your day for you to write'.
And it's true. It's just me (after feeding the hungry cats), the sunrise, the calves in the field outside my garden, and the birds singing in the day. I hold onto every single minute, and the minutes turn to an hour, and some days, there are quite a few hours in which I write. All guilt free. And then, when the family has awoken to the day, and it's clear I'm not going to be able to write a thing, I magically turn into a mother and wife again.
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Steam and Stir-fry
I’m
currently writing my third novel, and have two others brewing in the furthest
reaches of my mind…biding their time until I have
time…time to write, time to be, time to
listen to the needs of my characters.
When I
finished Mosaic, I figured it would
be the only novel I’d ever write, and I said to more than one person “I only
have one novel in me” ~ I write non-fiction….that was, until March 23rd, as I was making dinner.
The
radio was on softly in the background and I heard the name Bluey. It reminded
me of an amazing friend I had. I met Bluey when I was ten….skiving from a school sports
day. He was in his 50s, and his truck had broken down by the side of the road.
The boys I was bunking off school with started talking to him about trucks…but somehow they ended up
heading down to the river and I stayed behind and talked to Bluey. We talked
for hours about all things esoteric, and he read my palm. We swapped addresses,
and became dear friends.
So when I heard the name Bluey on the radio, I thought
about him, and then I wondered if any women were ever called Bluey? I thought
about it as a character name, and within half an hour I had the story for Bluey’s Café. That book was written in
five days (if only covers got to be painted that quickly!), and it is such a
pleasure to have the time to sit with the characters and fine-tune the writing.
And
then I thought…I couldn’t have any more novels
in me, and no sooner did that thought occur to me than characters, locations
and storylines were nipping at my thoughts. And now…now I can’t imagine not writing
novels for the rest of my life! Funny that. But of course, it could all change
tomorrow.
I come
to the keyboard hours before my family wakes up…and I meet the page. I step back into the world of my
characters. But the truth is they’re with me all the time, particularly in the
shower (lost of ideas and inspiration in that ten minutes of hot, steamy bliss
each morning), and when I’m cooking a tasty meal. Perhaps it’s because they’re both such sensual
experiences, and to write you need to get out of your head and feel. The scent of basil leaves ripped
into my tomato salad, or the taste of stem ginger in the heart of a chocolate
cupcake; rose and geranium soap on my skin ~ these are the simple pleasures which ignite the writing brain.
The
characters carry on conversations, share their feelings with each other, and I… I eavesdrop. Many of their conversations and anxieties and
pleasures may not make it into the book, but it gives me a strong sense of who
they are.
Happily Ever After by Veronika Sophia Robinson
Let me just say that no matter how many novels I end up writing, they will always have a happily-ever-after ending. Why?
We all need to hope; need moments in life where we can feel good, where we can feel like we're 'home'. So, no matter what drama, torture, tragedy or pain I put my characters through (or indeed, that they put me through), we will come to a point where we can both breathe ~ where we can say 'life feels good right now'.
And I want my readers to sigh when they read the last page; to come through the journey and feel that, just for now, it's going to be okay. Why? Because we ALL deserve the chance to feel good.
As I young woman I walked out of the cinema at the end of the movie, Somersby, crying my eyes out. I was utterly distraught. The usher stopped me and asked if I was okay. 'No. It had the wrong ending', was all I could blub out. And I wasn't any better at the end of The Bridges of Madison County.
My characters will always have a happily ever after....even if they don't know it yet!
We all need to hope; need moments in life where we can feel good, where we can feel like we're 'home'. So, no matter what drama, torture, tragedy or pain I put my characters through (or indeed, that they put me through), we will come to a point where we can both breathe ~ where we can say 'life feels good right now'.
And I want my readers to sigh when they read the last page; to come through the journey and feel that, just for now, it's going to be okay. Why? Because we ALL deserve the chance to feel good.
As I young woman I walked out of the cinema at the end of the movie, Somersby, crying my eyes out. I was utterly distraught. The usher stopped me and asked if I was okay. 'No. It had the wrong ending', was all I could blub out. And I wasn't any better at the end of The Bridges of Madison County.
My characters will always have a happily ever after....even if they don't know it yet!
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Names or Numbers?
I'm always intrigued as to what causes an author to choose chapter numbers or chapter names...
Perhaps it's my aversion to numbers and maths in general, but I can't imagine writing a book using numbers for a chapter...Where's the description? Where's the lure? What's the chapter about? 1, 2, 3....well, it's obvious that we're counting our way through the book so let's flavour it up with some names. Right? It's a personal choice, of course, and some publishers may well insist on numbers.
Some of the chapter titles I've used in Mosaic and Bluey's Cafe include:
Love Never Dies
The Midwife's Cottage
Chalkboard Menu
Hot 'n' Spicy
The Old Rainwater Tank
On the Widow's Doorstep
Market Day in the Village
The Children's Labyrinth
Would my books feel different if I'd simply counted: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5? They would to me, that's for sure.
Perhaps it's my aversion to numbers and maths in general, but I can't imagine writing a book using numbers for a chapter...Where's the description? Where's the lure? What's the chapter about? 1, 2, 3....well, it's obvious that we're counting our way through the book so let's flavour it up with some names. Right? It's a personal choice, of course, and some publishers may well insist on numbers.
Some of the chapter titles I've used in Mosaic and Bluey's Cafe include:
Love Never Dies
The Midwife's Cottage
Chalkboard Menu
Hot 'n' Spicy
The Old Rainwater Tank
On the Widow's Doorstep
Market Day in the Village
The Children's Labyrinth
Would my books feel different if I'd simply counted: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5? They would to me, that's for sure.
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Violin by Anne Rice
The downside (no, there's not one really) to my new goal of reading a novel a week is that it leaves little time to write blogs! I bought Violin by Anne Rice because the title caught my eye. My daughter, Bethany, plays grade eight violin, and is lead violinist in the Cumbria Youth Orchestra, and I thought perhaps it might interest her...until I read the back! And then I thought 'She can wait, I'm reading this!' And I'm so glad I did. It was unlike anything I've read in a long time.
I don't want to give too much of the storyline away, but essentially the main character is in the depths of grief ~ her husband has just died of AIDS. This isn't the first time she'w walked through the valley of loss.
She hears the violin of the ghost of a Russian aristocrat and it is like a healing balm to her pain....well, for a while, at least...until he tries to drive her mad. What he doesn't count on is her strength. It's not a storyline that I'm going to forget in a hurry. If you enjoy books which make you think, then this most certainly fits into that category.
I'm currently near the end of the second book of the Three Sisters Island trilogy by Nora Roberts ~ and LOVING it! No doubt that's what my next blog will be.
Meanwhile, I'm also reading the manuscript of my daughter Eliza's current book...set in a fantasy world of elemental magic (ironic, as that is the theme in the Three Sisters books!). And in my spare time (laughing) I'm working on the second draft of my novel, Bluey's Café . No rest for the wicked, then...
I don't want to give too much of the storyline away, but essentially the main character is in the depths of grief ~ her husband has just died of AIDS. This isn't the first time she'w walked through the valley of loss.
She hears the violin of the ghost of a Russian aristocrat and it is like a healing balm to her pain....well, for a while, at least...until he tries to drive her mad. What he doesn't count on is her strength. It's not a storyline that I'm going to forget in a hurry. If you enjoy books which make you think, then this most certainly fits into that category.
I'm currently near the end of the second book of the Three Sisters Island trilogy by Nora Roberts ~ and LOVING it! No doubt that's what my next blog will be.
Meanwhile, I'm also reading the manuscript of my daughter Eliza's current book...set in a fantasy world of elemental magic (ironic, as that is the theme in the Three Sisters books!). And in my spare time (laughing) I'm working on the second draft of my novel, Bluey's Café . No rest for the wicked, then...
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Mosaic by Veronika Sophia Robinson
What
readers are saying about Mosaic:
I read this in
about three days, a miracle seeing as I never usually get time to read
anything with having children 24/7, but you know when you find a good book you
can't put it down. I knew it would be, thanks Veronika. Becky.
Really really enjoyed MOSAIC; it reminds me a bit of
'Love Actually' and that's a compliment! Thank you Veronika, it arrived at the
perfect time 'Flu plus a self imposed 'screen free' week. And I DID cry! Xxx Elizabeth. France.
What a
beautiful story it is, I so enjoyed reading it, so much so that I read it all
in one go with sleeping children cuddled up around me! I think you are a really
powerful healer, and your words are your medicine. They offer the potential to
heal and reveal to the depths of the human heart and soul. The wise women in
your story are archetypes for our time, offering grace, truth and wisdom. I
love the way you include so many aspects of natural birthing and parenting, and
liked to imagine younger women reading this then exploring these ideas for
themselves and making them a reality when they become mothers for themselves. A
beautiful, inspiring story of the many depths of love and the human heart.
Loved it and looking forward to your next ones! Clare
It's a fantastic book, I finished it last
night (Monday) (it arrived Saturday morning). I really enjoyed it and would
recommend it to everyone. It has the most beautiful description of a birth that
I've ever read in a novel. I look forward to your next novel, Veronika. Michelle
I awoke early this morning to sunlight streaming through the house. Making a pot of cinnamon tea I settled down in my favourite chair and read Mosaic. What a treat ~ simple, truthful, peaceful, evocative, inspiring. A time spent with friends old and new ~ Thank you, Samantha
Well I could savour no more and just sat and read it all!! I can
tell you it takes a lot to make me sit down in the day and read! I have cried
my way through your beautiful book. I have truly loved it, and am so honoured
to be in it. I really am. It is a beautiful book, and I miss all the characters
hugely already! Bring on the next one!! Mandy
Bingham, Irish singer and songwriter
I just
have to share that I received my copy of Mosaic yesterday, and managed to finish
it already between naps and my son's bedtime. What a WONDERFUL read. It is
poignant to all of us, and truly relevant to everyone who is human. It was an
amazing catalyst for me into some of the sore places in my heart that are so
deeply in need of healing; places that are affecting my mothering of my son,
and are crying out for ways to heal. I literally began to remember how to cry
them out as I read the book.
The first page had me... the characters were immediately like my old friends and as they shared more of themselves with Topaz, the main character, I felt like I had known them all my life... it reminded me how incredibly important it is to have a circle of women in my life... something I have been desperately missing since moving to England 2.5 yrs ago.
Topaz is a beautiful mix of already-amazing woman and one open to expanding and learning new ways of being in the world. I was inspired and reassured that there is still time to become everything I dream of. And the storyline unfolding in her life kept me turning the pages well after I should have been in bed.
It was also incredibly refreshing to read a novel that fully encompasses the parenting life I find so natural and comfortable... scenes of delicious
food, sweet experiences of birthing, parenting, educating ~ a way of
being in the world that is in line with Nature. Usually reading novels there is some place that sticks, or prickles; some place where the way "the world" assumes a way of being that just goes against what I feel that I end up with a bad taste in my mouth. Mosaic left me with sweetness the whole way through, even through the bitter, painful, tearful parts.
Much Love, Kirsten
The first page had me... the characters were immediately like my old friends and as they shared more of themselves with Topaz, the main character, I felt like I had known them all my life... it reminded me how incredibly important it is to have a circle of women in my life... something I have been desperately missing since moving to England 2.5 yrs ago.
Topaz is a beautiful mix of already-amazing woman and one open to expanding and learning new ways of being in the world. I was inspired and reassured that there is still time to become everything I dream of. And the storyline unfolding in her life kept me turning the pages well after I should have been in bed.
It was also incredibly refreshing to read a novel that fully encompasses the parenting life I find so natural and comfortable... scenes of delicious
food, sweet experiences of birthing, parenting, educating ~ a way of
being in the world that is in line with Nature. Usually reading novels there is some place that sticks, or prickles; some place where the way "the world" assumes a way of being that just goes against what I feel that I end up with a bad taste in my mouth. Mosaic left me with sweetness the whole way through, even through the bitter, painful, tearful parts.
Much Love, Kirsten
A
lovely novel with a very human theme which almost everyone will relate to. I
enjoyed this book - it is an accessible read with simple but touching
descriptions that capture moments in human life and nature in a very evocative
way. I loved the introduction of important issues such as gentle birthing,
empathetic parenting and the importance of finding a peaceful connection with
the earth. I hope that the novel will open the eyes of readers who happen upon
it and do not yet know the joys of such a way of life.
I specifically liked the ending and the way the author has not shied from the sadness which so many of us, if not all, experience - bereavement, baby loss, changes that are difficult to manage and accept. I suppose life is a mosaic, as per the title, and beautiful in all its parts as well as a whole picture - a fitting title then for this snap-shot of a very human protagonist and part of her uplifting, open-hearted journey.
I specifically liked the ending and the way the author has not shied from the sadness which so many of us, if not all, experience - bereavement, baby loss, changes that are difficult to manage and accept. I suppose life is a mosaic, as per the title, and beautiful in all its parts as well as a whole picture - a fitting title then for this snap-shot of a very human protagonist and part of her uplifting, open-hearted journey.
Clare Sage (review on Amazon)
Thank you for sharing
your heart with us. The novel was intimately moving; I would like to get one
for my eldest granddaughter. Would you sign it from your heart to hers
from her grandma? I so want her to read it; beautiful seeds will be sown
within. Not sure if she will read it, but just her being in
the holding of it, will touch her and kindle a deep memory knowing.
Ruth
Betrayed by love, internationally successful children’s
illustrator, Topaz Lane,
has a jaundiced view of relationships. Sworn off men for life, she feels
embittered that she’ll never achieve her one true dream: to have a family. With
her 34th birthday looming, Topaz feels like part of her life is over: her love
life! When her sister enters her in a local radio competition, which asks the
question Does life begin at forty?, her life changes forever. She soon
discovers that everyone has a wound, and everyone has a gift to share.
Friday, May 03, 2013
The Aging Writer
Yesterday
I shared with a friend how much I was enjoying the emotional, mental and
spiritual side of aging. Inner maturity brings with it a sense of contentment
and peace that I never felt in my younger years. Perhaps it's just because I'm a Capricorn ~ they're slow bloomers.
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| Our face tells the story of our life |
I
have to be honest and say I can’t quite reconcile the image before me in the
mirror ,though: wrinkles, looser skin, silver-frosted hair. They all betray the
happiness I feel within.
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| I would love to express this much beauty in older age (and now!) |
The
incentive for writing my first novel, Mosaic, was very much bound up in my fear
of turning forty. Looking back, I can see I embarked on it as a therapeutic
exercise. The book opens with a radio station competition which asks the
question “Does life begin at forty?”
With
fifty just 4.5 years away, I feel quite thrilled with the ride. A lot of the fear I'd felt at forty stemmed from the panic that there was still so much I wanted to do in my life...and time seemed to be slipping away.
It’s
interesting to me, as a writer, that some of the highest-grossing films at the Box Office are those where the lead character/s are of pensioner age. Is it
that not only do the elderly have more time to go to the cinema, but that they
recognise in their characters just how very much life is within? Could it be
that as the body starts to decline the spirit grows livelier? I do believe so.
Now
that I’ve added ‘novelist’ to my CV, I can’t help but wonder if older
characters will start to emerge in my writing. Will I write through the lens of
a fuller life experience? I hope so. And actually, it feels rather exciting.
Two
of my favourite movies are The Notebook (don’t watch it without tissues!), and
The Bridges of Madison County (more tissues).
The
Notebook is told through a journal kept by an elderly man which recounts the
love story between him and his wife (welling up here just be remembering it!),
and although it shows them as younger people ~ it is the older characters which
really tell the story: the power of their love. The characters, as youngsters,
thought they knew what love was. The characters, in the Winter of their life,
truly know love.
The
Bridges of Madison County isn’t about pensioner-age oldness, but more about the
later middle years ~ that time when you feel that perhaps all opportunity has
gone. That time when it feels like the life you’ve got is the only life you’re
ever going to have. Perhaps that is why I cry like an abandoned baby when I
read the book (or watch the film), because I want to scream out to the main
character (played by the awesome Meryl Streep) “Make a different choice!”
Whenever I’ve watched this film with my daughters, I say to them ‘please tell
me you’d make a different choice?’
There’s
a lady who comes into the local coffee shop where I go, and from the day I saw
her my heart said ‘that’s what I want to be like when I’m older!’ She has
long, healthy, silver hair down to her mid back, a skip in her step, and a huge
smile on her face. I’ve never been comfortable with old age meaning (for me) a
blue rinse with short permed hair, walking stick, sitting watch TV all day or
playing bingo or bowls. I want to have a skip or three in my step, a sense of
fun and mischief, laughter in my eyes, and an unstoppable zest for life. I still want to search for meaning through books, experiences, people. I want to live fully.
I
have an uncle, in his eighties, in the USA. He’s my late father’s oldest
brother. And you know what? Every day he swims for two hours in the Gulf of Mexico. When I heard this, I jumped up and down
with joy ~ I have this in my DNA!!!
Although
my mother’s body (she’s 74 in 23 days) has slowed down (compared to how she was
at midlife), I can still hear passion and joy in her voice ~ she lives in
Tasmania, so I only have her voice to go on. Every day she’s out walking,
enjoying the nearby parks, making herself fresh juices, reading interesting
books, taking baths by candlelight, having a monthly massage, eating Black Forest Cafe and the local German cafe. She is still the
same woman who made my childhood so rich by modelling creativity and zest. I
have this in my DNA!!!
As
we grow older, we realise it’s not about going somewhere…it’s about being here...now.Why does it take so long to discover the secret of life?
Storytelling and Clothes
I
had a chuckle to myself today when I overheard my teenage daughters in the back
of the car talking about their doll-playing years.
Eliza
said she always used her dolls to play out the stories in her head, and live
out the amazing, if not weird, plot lines. To her frustration, Bethany just wanted to dress the dolls and
make them look pretty. Some things never change!
The
first story Eliza wrote was based on two of her toy cats called Ty and Amber.
Still makes me smile.
Eliza
was destined to be a writer before she could even write. www.elizaserenarobinson.com
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| One of my favourite children's stories. I never got sick of reading this. |
Thursday, May 02, 2013
The Silence
About
five or six years ago, I spent a couple of nights in a hotel in downtown Manhattan, New
York. I didn’t get a wink of sleep. The noise
completely floored me. Even at 3am, there were fire engine sirens, car horns
beeping, people on the street yelling, garbage trucks banging about. It's true: New York is the city which never sleeps! Well, I certainly didn't.
When
I arrived home, I stood at my window at 10pm breathing in the fresh country
air. ‘Listen to that,’ I said to my husband. ‘The sweet sound of silence.’ I
wanted to bottle it so I could have it forever.
I
awoke last night at 3am to go the loo. How inconvenient to wake from slumber!
As I crawled back into bed, I took about five minutes to just savour that
familiar sound: silence. I love to wake up before dawn and be joined by the
birds, and the sound of Nature in her various expressions is a delight to me.
At night, I thrive on silence. It was nice to be reminded that I don’t go to
sleep against a backdrop of street lights, sirens and car horns.
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| Long Meg stone circle, just a few fields from | our home |
When
I write, I also like silence (birdsong is just fine, as is the cracking fire).
But if the girl cat is in the room snuffling or snoring, she has to go out.
It’s just too distracting. As soon as my family wake up, I head off to do other things.
I
can write notes in cafés, in the car outside my daughter’s music lesson, and
other such places. But writing from the depths, writing from my heart? I need silence.
I often wonder how I managed to write when working in a news room all those
years ago. If I’m honest, I think I was always side-tracked by those
conversations.
Throughout
my late teens and twenties, I always came out as an extrovert on the
personality tests. But certain events in my adult life, including chronic back
pain for years and years and years (so much better now), had the effect of weighing me down, and taking their
toll. My essential personality is still optimistic ~ and I truly hope that I
always have the ability to see the cup full to overflowing ~ but something huge
has shifted, and this is truly reflected in my inability to write in noisy,
distracting situations.
I
watch in awe as my daughter Eliza scribbles her novels into notebooks, day
after day, never bothered by family conversations, movies, coffee machines in
cafés or crowds. I envy (in a nice way!) that ability to just focus on the job
at hand.
Silence
is my comforter, and Silence is in my heart. Perhaps it’s because, for me,
Silence is another word for Peace.
Wednesday, May 01, 2013
Observation
The key to being a writer (indeed, the key to an examined life) is observation. It's about noticing the little things. What colours were in the sunrise? Why type of clouds are in the sky today? What did breakfast taste like? Were you hungry when you ate or did you consume food simply because it was that time of day? How did the grass feel beneath your feet? What does your lounge room smell like? Incense, fresh air, cats, last night's curry?
When we're introduced to people, it's easy to not even remember their name one minute later. Why is that? Why are we, in general, so forgetful? Culturally, we're taught to consume. And with that incessant need to have more and more, we actually absorb less and less. We don't notice the dew on the spiderweb or the scent of the freesias or how the crows feet on the corners of our eyes are showing the world just how much we've smiled.
Next time you eat, stop doing anything else. Just use your senses and be with your food, with the process of digestion and see how much you notice.
When you're talking with someone, really look into their eyes. Notice the different flecks of colour. Life is rich, so rich. If only we'd take the time to see.
When we're introduced to people, it's easy to not even remember their name one minute later. Why is that? Why are we, in general, so forgetful? Culturally, we're taught to consume. And with that incessant need to have more and more, we actually absorb less and less. We don't notice the dew on the spiderweb or the scent of the freesias or how the crows feet on the corners of our eyes are showing the world just how much we've smiled.
Next time you eat, stop doing anything else. Just use your senses and be with your food, with the process of digestion and see how much you notice.
When you're talking with someone, really look into their eyes. Notice the different flecks of colour. Life is rich, so rich. If only we'd take the time to see.
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Artichoke Hearts, Jasmine Skies and Kite Spirit
Last
night I had the pleasure of attending the book launch of writer Sita
Brahmachari. She was launching her latest teen book, Kite Spirit. Now, the Universe must have been listening when I
wrote my last blog post about wanting to read a new novel each week ~ because I
came home last night with all three of Sita’s books!
I
was really touched (and encouraged) to see Sita brought tears as she read part
of her book. (Not just me who cries at their own book launch, then?) It was
deeply inspiring to hear what life experiences or people she drew upon for her
writing. For me, it’s fascinating to hear what brings other writers to the page
~ to find out what makes them laugh or cry.
Sita
came across as a genuinely lovely person, and it was a delight to meet her.
Thought it rather crafty of my 15 year old daughter to sell one of her novels
to Sita. I think Eliza must have forgotten that she had her own book launch
last week!
I
have to take my hat off to Andrea and Jon Dennison of Wordsworth Bookshop ~
what an incredible job they did in decorating the store with a kite and
artichoke theme…and don’t even get me started on the delicious food…I’ll be too
scared to step on the scales for the next week. They’re such lovely hosts, and
so passionate about nurturing and caring for the people who come into their
bookshop and café. It is a delight to know them. Do visit Wordsworth if you're ever in Penrith.
Now,
where was I? Oh yes, three books to read!
Sunday, April 28, 2013
Guilty Words
In
the late afternoons when I should have been studying the biology textbook, I
was instead immersed in a Mills and Boon romance novel and being swept of my
High School feet. My heart was content. Love was here. And then, I’d hear my
mother walking up the hallway… and my novel would be quickly shoved into the
top draw of my desk, and my head would be buried in the mind-numbingly boring
world (for me) of how to dissect frogs.
In
my younger years, I was always reading. I’ve lost count of the number of times
my mother had to call me to set the table for dinner because I simply refused
to climb down the magical Faraway Tree. I had every Enid Blyton book that was
published, and I’d admire the collection on my bookshelf imagining that one day
I’d give them to my own children. (Turns out I travelled too much, and any such
dreams got left behind in imaginary suitcases.)
As
an adult, I mostly read non-fiction. And I can read non-fiction all day long
and not experience an ounce of guilt. I’m learning, researching, and acquiring
knowledge. It’s part of my ‘work life’. But pick up a fiction book and read for
‘pleasure’? That’s for a lazy Sunday afternoon, right? Well, as someone who
tends to work seven days a week (in some form), there are no fiction reading
days. I’m trying to change my habits and read at least one fiction book a week
~ and not just on a weekend! Yesterday, for example, my daughter read the first
book of her second trilogy out loud to me. No guilt! See, I’m getting better
already.
The
guilt of fiction inexplicably extends to writing fiction, as I discovered when
writing Mosaic and Bluey’s Café. I’d creep out of bed well
before sunrise to write; well before my family awoke, and well before the
‘official’ work day started… There was one day, with Bluey’s Café, where I wrote till midday ~ apologising the whole
time. (I was in such a flow that I literally couldn't stop and wait till the next morning. Stupid to apologise! I write. That’s what I do. Why feel guilt?
I
live words. I breathe them in. Why should some words be forbidden and others
welcomed in? Perhaps fiction is like a drug, a socially acceptable addiction?
One this is certain, it’s hard to come back to the ‘real world’ after a good
read. Am I scared of avoiding 'reality'?
So, one fiction book a week. Any recommendations? (For the record, I
prefer happily ever after endings!)
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Dreams and writing
It was 1994, and I
was awoken from a dream by a voice saying that I would write ‘the beautiful
birth book’. I can tell you, almost twenty years later I can still hear that
voice clear as day. But what was really unnerving was that I was not remotely
into the parenting world. In fact, I wasn’t even interested in having children,
and I certainly wasn’t in any sort of relationship that would consciously bring
children into the world.
I’d been working as a journalist in the animal welfare
field. At the time of my dream, I had just moved from New Zealand to the UK to work as a media officer for
Compassion in World Farming. I stumbled out of bed with the voice still strong
in my head, and something guided me towards the New Age bookstore in
Petersfield, Hampshire, where I was living. I don’t know if the shop is still
there, but it was called The Open Window, and it was an oasis from the world
outside. I can still hear the gentle music and smell the scent of incense.
And then the
strangest thing happened. Two books on waterbirth literally fell off the shelf
before me. Two books! I bought them immediately and went back to my flat to
read them. Utterly charmed, I entered this new world with great curiosity, and
it wasn’t long till other books came into my hands, such as Dolphins, Telepathy
and Underwater birthing.
I never did write
The Beautiful Birth Book, but I feel that when I wrote The Birthkeepers: reclaiming an ancient tradition I was writing the book from my dream.
Oftentimes I’ve
dreamt of ideas for blogs, and recently I dreamt very clearly that I should
write a book on being a stay-at-home mother. The words poured out of me the
following morning, and though I’ve been side-tracked a bit since the idea, I’ve
now written more than half of it. Apron Strings: how I found joy as a stay-at-home mother will be published later this year.
The first draft of
my novel, Bluey’s Café (publishing later this year), ‘poured’ out of me in five
days….and by five days, I mean five mornings… That is, writing before dawn and
continuing until the family woke up. Clearly I need to work on the first
draft, but it was a good example of being ‘tuned in’ to another energy.
I truly thought I
only had one novel in me, but then the idea and plot line for a third novel
came to me very recently ~ in a dream. Thank you Universe! It sure makes things
easier when ideas are delivered in this way.
I’ve always been an
active dreamer ~ except for the early years of parenting when I was majorly
sleep deprived. Dreams invite us to places we would never go to in daily life,
and I’m so grateful to have this resource in my writing life.
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